As I reflect on the last year and all of its chaos, the drama, the tears, and the mixed feelings in my heart I feel like the era of begging people to stay in my life is over. I no longer have the energy to try and keep people in my life. This saying is a cliche because we’ve heard it several times: some people are only in your life for a season. Not everyone is in your life till death do us part. That goes for friends and even family to be honest. It used to bother me the idea of not being “liked”, or if someone didn’t give me the energy I thought I needed from them I would dwell on it, complain about it, or try to plead my case. Ew. When people go let them. When they start acting funny or distant let them. Stop fighting with the universe… it’s also possible that you aren’t any good for them either…it works both ways…